Tips for Fostering Better Executive Presence

Stop Degrading Your Executive Presence, Self-confidence, and Well-Being

Tips for Fostering Better Executive Presence

Stop Degrading Your Executive Presence, Self-confidence, and Well-Being

by Robert Hackman

Sharing Music Lyrics that I Like (Part 3)

by Robert Hackman

Photograph by Kychan on Unsplash

I got lyrics to go Everybody
(I got lyrics to go) Ah c’mon now
I got lyrics to go Ah, check it out y’all
(I got lyrics to go) It’s like that now

Lyrics from the song ‘Lyrics to Go’
By A Tribe Called Quest

Here is the third and final installment of Lyrics I Like for your enjoyment. There are a lot of them. 

The best music hooks us, causing us to yearn for more. Lyrics that resonate compel us to sing along even as we attribute our own meanings and intentions to them.

Convincing leadership language gets repeated, too. Your messages are getting through when they get adopted by others. It represents a way group members connect. 

Common sayings and stories solidify culture and convey shared values. How people conduct themselves in teams and organizations is vital, yet words guide the way we interpret the actions we see.

As a leader, you may find it helpful to borrow others’ phrases. However, I strongly encourage you to develop wording that reflects your aspirations and what you want for others. Your intentions come through when you use your language. People will trust you and respond accordingly.

I encourage you to share the lyrics you like in comments on social media.

Please take time to luxuriate with music, ponder some lyrics, and reflect on what matters most. Make sure you have fun doing it. Thanks.

 Turn the Heat Up

You know I really love you
You know I really care
But I think your bedroom
Was made by Frigidaire
Turn the heat up, baby
Before this lovin’ turns cold

Written by: John Hahn and Jimmy Vivino

Performed by: Shemekia Copeland

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=id95P_7JjZM

I’ve Got to Leave this Woman

When I was givin’ her my money
She treated me like I was B.B. King
Hey, when I was givin’ her my money
She treated me like I was B.B. King
Now I ain’t got no money left
Now she treats me
Like I’m not even a human bein’

Written by: George Henry Jackson

Performed by: B.B. King

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQDrQXwY6G4

No Particular Place to Go

No particular place to go
So we parked way out on the Kokomo
The night was young, and the moon was gold
So we both decided to take a stroll
Can you imagine the way I felt?
I couldn’t unfasten her safety belt

Written and Performed by: Chuck Berry

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QnnoY8R9yC

Not Fade Away

My love is bigger than a Cadillac
I try to show it, and you drive me back
Your love for me has got to be real
For you to know just how I feel
A love for real and not fade away

Written by: Norman Petty and Charles Holly  

Performed by: Buddy Holly and the Crickets

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NN2L84dvoag

Wake Up Everybody

Wake up everybody, no more sleepin in bed
No more backward thinkin’ time for thinkin’ ahead
The world has changed so very much

From what it used to be so
There is so much hatred, war, an’ poverty

Written by: Gene McFadden, John Whitehead, Victor Leon Carstarphen

Performed by: Harold Melvin and the Blue Notes

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OOxoeGL3tTo

Common’s Rap lyrics in the Wake Up Everybody version by John Legend and the Roots, with Melanie Fiona and Common

Breathe the days in
Weave through the maze, and the season so amazing
Feed them and raise them
Seasons are aging: earthquakes, wars, and rumors
I want us to get by, but we’re more than consumers
We’re more than shooters, more than looters
Created in his image, so God live through us
And even in this generation living through computers

Only love, love, love can reboot us

Written and Performed by: Lonnie Lynn, aka Common

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5KI_S4sa3I0

Little Ghetto Boy (Prelude)

So, all the big ballers grab rims and hung in the game

And there’s a degree of difficulty

To make it from the ghetto boy into the manhood

Especially when you know that yo’ fresh greens

Will help eliminated a canned, good

Can good and bad co-exist?

In a place with plenty of off-ramps but no exits

Written by: Ahmir K. Thompson, James Jason Poyser, Kirk Lloyd Douglas, Malik Yusef El Shabazz Jones, Owen L. Biddle

Performed by: The Roots, Malik Yusef, John Legend

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sQDTcJHcliA

A couple of lyrics from Bob Dylan

Simple Twist of Fate

People tell me it’s a sin
To know and feel too much within

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sGnhyoP_DSc

Shelter From the Storm

Not a word was spoken between us, there was little risk involved
Everything up to that point had been left unresolved
Try imagining a place where it’s always safe and warm
“Come in,” she said
“I’ll give you shelter from the storm”

Written and Performed by: Bob Dylyan

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-gsDBuHwqbM

Keep it Loose, Keep it Tight

But the people on the street

Out on buses or on feet

We all got the same blood flow

Oh, in society

Every dollar got a deed

We all need a place so we can go

And feel over the rainbow

Written and Performed by: Amos Lee

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9xt8dVLPLFc

Fever

You give me fever
When you kiss me
Fever when you hold me tight
Fever in the mornin’
A fever all through the night

Written by: Llandel Veguilla Malave, Kisean Anderson, William Rappaport, Henri Lanz, Juan Morera – Peggy Lee’s additional lyrics are uncredited

Performed by: Peggy Lee

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBANWpzsHts

Be My Life’s Companion

My wife’s and my wedding song.

Be my life’s companion, and you’ll never grow old.
Yes, I’ll love you so much that you’ll never grow old.
Love, and youth, and happiness are yours to have and hold.
Be my life’s companion, be my life’s companion,
And you’ll never grow old.

Written by: Bob Hilliard, Milton Delugg

Performed by: The Mills Brothers

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nDiSwyjhShU

A Foggy Day

I was a stranger in the city
Out of town were the people I knew
I had that feeling of self-pity
What to do? What to do? What to do?
The outlook was decidedly blue
But as I walked through the dreary streets alone
It turned out to be the luckiest day I’ve known

Written by: Ira Gershwin, George Gershwin

Performed by: Louis Armstrong and Ella Fitzgerald

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jg66AV7T2So

Passionate Kisses

Is it too much to demand
I want a full house and a rock and roll band
Pens that won’t run out of ink
And cool quiet and time to think
Shouldn’t I have this
Shouldn’t I have this
Shouldn’t I have all of this, and
Passionate kisses

Written and Performed by: Lucinda Williams 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEqXV9hGk-I

When I Was a Boy

And I tell the man I’m with about the other life I lived
And I say now you’re top gun, I have lost, and you have won
And he says, “Oh no, no, can’t you see
When I was a girl, my mom and I we always talked
And I picked flowers everywhere that I walked.
And I could always cry, now even when I’m alone I seldom do
And I have lost some kindness

Written and Performed by: Dar Williams

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=57BwHKcrO5o

A Couple of lyrics from the Beatles 

Why Don’t We Do It In the Road?

No one will be watching us

Why don’t we do it in the road?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p4E6KtQg_z0

The End

And in the end
The love you take
Is equal to the love
You make

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=12R4FzIhdoQ

A couple of lyrics by Sarah McLachlan

Possession

And I would be the one
To hold you down
Kiss you so hard
I’ll take your breath away
And after I’d wipe away the tears
Just close your eyes dear

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IMTPrLNDgGc

Elsewhere

Mother
Can’t you see I’ve got to
Live my life the way I feel is
Right for me
Might not be right for you but it’s
Right for me

Written and Performed by: Sarah McLachlan

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pBptD4ldqaw

Some lyrics by John Gorka

Vinnie Charles is Free

Clothes have all shrunk in size

But most of the weight he gained is in his eyes

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XDxLeQECvp4

I’m From New Jersey

I’m from New Jersey, I don’t expect too much
If the world ended today, I would adjust

I would adjust

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jaWDWojIYS0

Morningside

Don’t want to waste what I have to give
In all of the time that I’ve left to live
Don’t want to waste what I have to give
In any of the time that I’ve got left
I can do more than I thought I could
Work brings more luck than knocking on wood
There’s random bad and random good
Work brings more good luck

Written and Performed by John Gorka

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lUCYyNTa_-g

Some lyrics by Brandi Carlile 

Whatever You Do

I never met a morning I could get through
With nothing on my breath to hold the night
And I never said I’m sorry, but I meant to
I never met a coward I don’t like

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Gz1Nqq7_X0

The Mother

The first things that she took from me were selfishness and sleep
She broke a thousand heirlooms I was never meant to keep
She filled my life with color, cancelled plans and trashed my car
But none of that is ever who we are

Written by: Phillip John Hanseroth, Timothy Jay Hanseroth, Brandi M. Carlile

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=npSDM26xlzs

Think

You better think (think)
Think about what you’re tryin’ to do to me, think (think-think)
Let your mind go, let yourself be free

Written by: Aretha Franklin and Ted White

Performed by: Aretha Franklin

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P9yIoSpWWNE

What’s Going On

Father, father
We don’t need to escalate
You see, war is not the answer
For only love can conquer hate
You know we’ve got to find a way
To bring some lovin’ here today

Written by: Marvin Gaye, Renaldo Benson, Alfred Cleveland, Marvin P. Gaye

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H-kA3UtBj4M

A couple of lyrics from the Grateful Dead

Althea 

Ain’t nobody messin’ with you but you
Your friends are getting most concerned
Loose with the truth, maybe it’s your fire
Baby, don’t get burned

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZZNZgtj26Fk

Scarlett Begonias

Well, I ain’t always right, but I’ve never been wrong
Seldom turns out the way it does in a song
Once in a while, you get shown the light
In the strangest of places if you look at it right

Written by: Robert Hunter and Jerry Garcia

Performed by: The Grateful Dead

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xt4XAz2WZ3Y

A couple of lyrics by the Indigo Girls

World Falls on Me

Now I woke up in the middle of a dream
Scared the world was too much for me
Sejarez said, “don’t let go
Just plant the seeds and watch them grow”

Hand Me Downs

All with hope, all with hope
That emptiness brings fullness
And loss of love brings wholeness to us all

Written by: Amy Raye

Performed by: the Indigo Girls

A couple of lyrics by Jason Isbell

White Man’s World

There’s no such thing as someone else’s war
Your creature comforts aren’t the only things worth fighting for
If you’re still breathing, it’s not too late
We’re all carrying one big burden, sharing one fate

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nu4dupoC7EE

Something More Than Free

And the day will come that I’ll find a reason
Somebody proud to love a man like me
My back is numb and my hands are freezing
But what I’m working for is something more than free

And I don’t think on why I’m here where it hurts
I’m just lucky to have the work
Sunday morning I’m too tired to go to church
But I thank God for the work

Written by: Jason Isbell

Performed by: Jason Isbell and the 400 Unit, and Jason Isbell

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VvlTwSWyqUM

Some Highly Romantic Lyrics

Broken Things 

You can have my heart, but it isn’t new
It’s been used and broken and only comes in blue
It’s been down a long road, and it got dirty on the way
If I give it to u, will u make it clean
And wash the pain away?

You can have my heart if you don’t mind broken things
You can have my heart if you don’t mind these tears
Cos I heard that you make all things new
So I give these pieces all to you
If you want it, you can have my heart

Written and Performed by: Lucy Kaplansky

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-SqAaf1E-w

Send One Your Love 

I know that people say two hearts beating as one is unreal
And can only happen in make believe stories
But so blind they all must be that they cannot believe what they see
For around us are miracles of love’s glory, hey

Written and Performed by: Stevie Wonder 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gFMl-OpNkvo

Nothing Can Come Between Us

I always hope that you remember
We’ll never really learn the meaning of it all
What we have is strong and tender, so hold on
In the middle of the madness
When the time is running out and you’re left alone
All I want is you to know that
It’s strong still, can’t pull us apart

Written by: Traci Colleen Hale, Stewart Matthewman, Sade

Performed by: Sade 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PxewBXRs4yw

All That Heaven Will Allow

Rain and storm and dark skies
Well, now they don’t mean a thing
If you got a girl that loves you
And who wants to wear your ring
So c’mon, Mister Trouble
We’ll make it through you somehow
We’ll fill this house with all the love
All that heaven will allow

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SdJIpyiupJo

Romeo and Juliet

I can’t do the talks, like they talk on the TV
And I can’t do a love song, like the way it’s meant to be
I can’t do everything, but I’ll do anything for you
I can’t do anything ‘cept be in love with you

Written by: Mark Knopfler

Performed by: Dire Straits

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4-AIzKkQMY

If We Were Vampires

If we were vampires and death was a joke
We’d go out on the sidewalk and smoke
Laugh at all the lovers and their plans
I wouldn’t feel the need to hold your hand
Maybe time running out is a gift
I’ll work hard ’til the end of my shift
And give you every second I can find
And hope it isn’t me who’s left behind

Written by: Jason Isbell

Performed by: Jason Isbell and the 400 Unit

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ivYkyC8J29M

Downstream 

You are the reason I was born
To be with you through all seasons
I’ll always hear you when you call

We’ll keep the love light shining
Through each night and day
A lonely life behind me
Oh, what a change you’ve made

Written by: Richard Davies, Roger Hodgson

Performed by: Supertramp

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ed_3j6vIfts

You Feed My Soul

You feed my soul, from deep down within
When I think you’ve given all baby, you start all over again
You warm my heart, like nobody before
It’s you that I adore baby
Just when I thought I could not love you anymore

Written by: Wendell Holmes

Performed by: The Holmes Brothers

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kvlpU0iNQ9E

Time After Time

If you’re lost, you can look and you will find me
Time after time
If you fall, I will catch you, I’ll be waiting
Time after time

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F1mqrCTFoz4

Dimming of the Day

When all my will is gone you hold me sway
I need you at the dimming of the day
You pulled me like the moon
Pulls on the tide
You know just where I keep my better side

Written by: Richard Thompson 

Performed by: Richard and Linda Thompson

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qzqjD-_OMHk

A Little Bit of Everything

Somewhere, a pretty girl is writing invitations
To a wedding she has scheduled for the fall
Her man says, “Baby, can I make an observation?
You don’t seem to be having any fun at all”
She said, “You just worry about your groomsmen and your shirt size
And rest assured that this is making me feel good
I think that love is so much easier than you realize
If you can give yourself to someone, then you should

Written by: Taylore Goldsmith

Performed by: Dawes

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yqhRK_g7WJc

Someone Like You

Someone like you
Make it all worthwhile
Someone like you
Keep me satisfied
Someone exactly like you

Written by: Van Morrison, Hugh Mulligan

Performed by: Van Morrison

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FnVnIKTWhNs

Naïve Melody (This Must Be the Place)

Out of all those kinds of people
You got a face with a view
I’m just an animal looking for a home and
Share the same space for a minute or two
And you love me ’til my heart stops
Love me ’til I’m dead
Eyes that light up, eyes look through you
Cover up the blank spots, hit me on the head, I go
Ooh

Written by: Tina Weymouth, Jerry Harrison, Chris Frantz & David Byrne

Performed by: Talking Heads

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_aNQFcNNnrE

A Little Bit of Everything 

This seemed the best way to close out these lyric collections

Oh, it’s a little bit of everything, it’s the Matador and the bull
It’s the suggested daily dosage, it’s the red Moon when it’s full
All these psychics and these doctors, they’re all right and they’re all wrong
It’s like trying to make out every word when they should simply hum along
It’s not some message written in the dark or some truth that no one’s seen
It’s a little bit of everything

Written by: Taylor Goldsmith

Performed by: Dawes

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JlVeDauFug

Please reach out to me to share your favorite lyrics and to discuss developing your leadership words to benefit yourself, your team, and your company. I welcome the conversation.

Robert Hackman, Principal, 4C Consulting – Courageously Curious Consulting and Coaching, helps people live and lead with fewer regrets. He grows and develops leaders through executive coaching, strategy consulting, facilitation, and training of individuals, teams, and organizations. He is committed to Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion. He facilitates trusting environments that promote uncommonly candid conversations. Rob is also passionate about the power of Everyday Legacies and developing Legacy Mindsets. He has conducted over 50 Legacy interviews with people to date. 

He is a serious man with a dry sense of humor who loves absurdity. Rob can often be found hiking rocky elevations or making music playlists. His varied mixes, including Pandemic Playlists and Music About Men, can be found on Spotify.

Bravely bring your curiosity to a conversation with Rob, schedule via voice or text @ 484.800.2203 or rhackman@4cconsulting.net.

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